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5 Emotional Challenges to Writing About Your Life or Your Family

January 30, 2019 By Lynette Benton Leave a Comment

When we write about our lives or our families, our challenges aren’t just literary. Emotions play a significant part in our efforts and they can actually undermine our creative process or shut it down altogether. Emotions that can affect life and family writers: Fear—of getting the facts wrong … [Read more...] about 5 Emotional Challenges to Writing About Your Life or Your Family

Filed Under: Creative Writing Tips, Family History, Memoir, Memoir Writing, Personal Essays, Writing Resources Tagged With: autobiography, creative writing tips, essay writing, Memoir Writing, Personal essays, writing resources, writing tips

Publish Essays That Pay

January 27, 2019 By Lynette Benton 2 Comments

I teach essay writing and I've also been pretty successful having my own personal essays published. But I know that I (and my writing students) can always improve our odds of getting our work into paying publications. So today, I'm recommending a book I believe will be useful for us (and you) in … [Read more...] about Publish Essays That Pay

Filed Under: Creative Writing Tips, Personal Essays, Writing Resources Tagged With: creative writing tips, Personal essays, publishing, writing resources, writing tips

Who Do You Write Life or Family Stories For?

January 24, 2019 By Lynette Benton 3 Comments

If you are writing about your life or your family, whom do you envision as your audience? Are you writing for family and friends or for a larger audience? Are they old, young, or in between? Men or women? Working or retired? Like to travel? Enjoy romance novels? Prefer mysteries? Addicted to reading … [Read more...] about Who Do You Write Life or Family Stories For?

Filed Under: Boomers and Seniors, Creative Writing Tips, Family History, Memoir, Memoir Writing, Personal Essays, Writing Resources Tagged With: autobiography, creative writing tips, family history, Memoir Writing, Personal essays, writing tips

What is Your Life or Family Writing Mission?

January 21, 2019 By Lynette Benton Leave a Comment

If you write about yourself or your family, what is your mission? What inspires and propels you? Do you feel strongly about what you want to say? Do you want others to understand your experiences or your family’s? My mission is to coax out the (accidentally or deliberately) concealed parts of my … [Read more...] about What is Your Life or Family Writing Mission?

Filed Under: Creative Writing Tips, Family History, Memoir, Memoir Writing, Personal Essays

Writing Contests: Are they Worth the Hassle—and the Cost?

January 17, 2019 By Lynette Benton 3 Comments

Considering the Value of Writing Contests I’ve been absent from this blog while polishing up my essays and memoir opening to submit to contests. Entering these contests has provoked several questions with answers, some good, others not so much. In a blog post several years ago, I asked my site … [Read more...] about Writing Contests: Are they Worth the Hassle—and the Cost?

Filed Under: Creative Writing Tips, Memoir Writing, My Mother's Money, Personal Essays, The Writing Life, Writing Resources Tagged With: creative writing, creative writing tips, essay writing, Personal essays, writing tips

Why Should I Publish My Work?

July 1, 2018 By Lynette Benton 2 Comments

Those of you who write manuscripts—that is full-length books—might be eager to find an agent and publisher for them. But not every serious writer feels that way. To see a different point of view, take a look at my essay, Writing As Self-Indulgence: Is Publishing Really Necessary? After you … [Read more...] about Why Should I Publish My Work?

Filed Under: Memoir Writing, Personal Essays, Publishing, Writing Resources

Answer to Another Memoir and Family Story Writing Question

June 10, 2018 By Lynette Benton Leave a Comment

Remember I asked you to send me your questions about writing memoir, stories from you life or about your family? Well, a reader asked the following: Something I struggle with is knowing when to ask for feedback on my writing (or more honestly, being willing to show others something that I … [Read more...] about Answer to Another Memoir and Family Story Writing Question

Filed Under: Family History, Memoir Writing, Personal Essays, Writing Resources Tagged With: autobiography, creative writing tips, essay writing, family history, Memoir Writing, writing resources, writing tips

QUESTIONS ABOUT WRITING ABOUT YOUR LIFE OR YOUR FAMILY?

April 9, 2018 By Lynette Benton 11 Comments

Have you been mulling over ideas about writing life stories—stories about your life or your family, but just can’t seem to get going? Or, have you started writing, but find yourself stuck by a seemingly intractable obstacle? Need to know what to do next? Send me your questions. Perhaps … [Read more...] about QUESTIONS ABOUT WRITING ABOUT YOUR LIFE OR YOUR FAMILY?

Filed Under: Boomers and Seniors, Family History, Memoir Writing, Personal Essays, Writing Resources Tagged With: autobiography, family history, genealogy, Memoir Writing, writing resources

Repaired Link: Welcome to My New Memoir/Family History Website!

March 26, 2018 By Lynette Benton Leave a Comment

First I apologize for the broken link to this site. The renovating a web site unfortunately creates undesirable vulnerabilities. I'm so sorry you were subjected to the 404 or 403 errors, whatever they mean. We think finally we've wrestled the problem to the ground! If you remember my previous … [Read more...] about Repaired Link: Welcome to My New Memoir/Family History Website!

Filed Under: Boomers and Seniors, Family History, Memoir Writing, Personal Essays, Writing Resources Tagged With: autobiography, baby boomers writing, creative writing tips, essay writing, family history, Memoir Writing, writing resources

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